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Last updated on July 5th, 2024 at 11:40 am
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It’s 2023 and we are barely into our first week of the year. That being said Instagram direct messages never seem to disappoint.
I had an interesting DM interaction recently that left me puzzled and suspicious. I had a feeling the chat would have progressed into a relationship scam before long.
I’ll explain a bit more about that later.
the chat
The chat started off with someone random account reaching out to me. At the time of the original DM had a photo of a man by the name of Shane. The image has since been changed. That’s neither here nor there just a bit of background.
The messenger seemed to be inquiring about collaborations. the only reason I replied was that the person seemed to be in urgent need of an answer. Basically, they spammed me.
I have an auto-reply set up on my Instagram account to direct people to contact us via the correct page for collaborations.
Note: All screenshot images were taken from Instagram Desktop. My bubbles are gray the Messengers are white.
![a very random chat I had via Instagram Direct message with someone trying to sell me a gold chain.](https://lifewithpal.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/dogs-and-gold-chat-intro.jpg)
As the chat went on the person wanted to know more about me. I always find it suspicious because I’ve been contacted by profiles trying to sell me MLM and romance scammers too.
I made it clear that I wasn’t looking for a date or love via DM.
![chat part 2.](https://lifewithpal.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/dog-and-gold-chat-part-2.jpg)
The one thing that caught my eye was the person’s repeated use of Are you here to be honest with me (it shows up again later in the chat). I found that odd if they were the ones who contacted me.
Now here’s where the DM gets a bit odd.
what they were selling
The messenger finally admits they are selling… Wait for it… dog and golds. You may think as I did what?
These are the most random items to sell together. Also selling animals is clearly against Instagram and Facebook’s terms of use.
![The person admits they are selling dog and golds. Which in terms means they are selling puppies nd gold chains.](https://lifewithpal.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/dogs-and-gold-part-3.jpg)
I’d like to point out that the person is clearly from outside of the United States because they stated dog and golds. Not gold. So that raised a red flag.
The chat went on I clearly let them know I wasn’t interested in either product.
Things take a turn
After sharing I wasn’t interested in buying a gold chain from the messenger they keep talking. They once again used the honesty remark.
However, this time they state:
: Am here to be honest and reliable.
followed by: Am not here to hurt someone to make myself happy.
![This a random comment that makes me wonder if this seller will begin to ask personal questions.](https://lifewithpal.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/dogs-and-gold-chat-4.jpg)
No, those comments made me wonder if this would turn into a romance scam.
They were determined
The messenger kept talking and mentioned that they were selling (dog and golds) to help support their family. Especially a daughter. Being familiar with some romance scams the use of children tends to be a ploy.
The messenger also mentioned that their profile was private because of scammers. (doesn’t that sound odd to anyone else or is it just me?).
Even after I mentioned I wasn’t interested they sent two photos of gold chains.
![images of gold chains sent to me via my profile on Instagram.](https://lifewithpal.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/dogs-and-gold-chat-part-5-gold-chains.jpg)
The chains have unique pricing (which I assume is the price) it seems to be from outside of the United States.
Here is a larger image of the first chain. The image source is unknown.
![a closer view of the chain image DM'd to me via Instagram. Original source unknown.](https://lifewithpal.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/closer-look-at-a-chain-527x630.jpg)
I once again notified the messenger that I wasn’t interested in their products and blocked the account.
what’s happened since
Since the original DM, the account has changed the profile picture to a group of chains but still goes by the name of Shane.
I have a feeling this was a profile from overseas. I also think the chat would have eventually been changed into a romance scam.
don’t buy products via DM
Don’t fall for these types of product scams. To me, this could have turned out poorly for someone who thought they were getting a good deal on a gold chain. I have a feeling this was a phishing attempt or a money-wiring scam.